Dear Marisa,
I know you're confused about what's going to happen. You've spent the last week recovering from a cold that you caught on the plane home from Ecuador and letting Mom cook for you, and not thinking about important things, like packing or learning more Indonesian words than susu and selamat datang. Well, Marisa, I have a few things to tell you.
Don't bring shampoo from home. The shampoo here is made for Asian hair and it will make you look really pretty even though you don't have a hair dryer. I' don't want to be vain, I'm just saying, it's nice shampoo.
While we're talking about packing, don't bring those linen pants. I know that you think you'll look like a cool hippie, but the girls here are really fashionable and you'll hate wearing them. Also, there's a reason that the 70-year old cashier at Kohl's complimented that weirdly patterned shirt when you bought it. Think carefully. You're going to be in a lot (like seriously, a lot) of photos.
I know you're nervous about keeping up with the other people in the program. What if you're not as smart as them?! They come from all over the country and they study stuff that sounds like it belongs in a TV drama like Bones or whatever. Don't be ridiculous. You know how to study a language, and it's your favorite thing to do. Why would the state department let you come if you couldn't do it? Also, the other students are really nice. You're going to be really good friends with some of them.
I know you're confused about what's going to happen. You've spent the last week recovering from a cold that you caught on the plane home from Ecuador and letting Mom cook for you, and not thinking about important things, like packing or learning more Indonesian words than susu and selamat datang. Well, Marisa, I have a few things to tell you.
Don't bring shampoo from home. The shampoo here is made for Asian hair and it will make you look really pretty even though you don't have a hair dryer. I' don't want to be vain, I'm just saying, it's nice shampoo.
While we're talking about packing, don't bring those linen pants. I know that you think you'll look like a cool hippie, but the girls here are really fashionable and you'll hate wearing them. Also, there's a reason that the 70-year old cashier at Kohl's complimented that weirdly patterned shirt when you bought it. Think carefully. You're going to be in a lot (like seriously, a lot) of photos.
I know you're nervous about keeping up with the other people in the program. What if you're not as smart as them?! They come from all over the country and they study stuff that sounds like it belongs in a TV drama like Bones or whatever. Don't be ridiculous. You know how to study a language, and it's your favorite thing to do. Why would the state department let you come if you couldn't do it? Also, the other students are really nice. You're going to be really good friends with some of them.
Learn your way home the first week. Don't be dumb. It's not that hard and if you don't, the meatball guy will make fun of you for getting lost every day for the next two months.
Why do you think you will actually use a gym membership? Hahahahahaha
The mogu mogu drinks and the magnum black bar are the best snacks at Indomaret. Phoebe might tell you that corn flavored cheetos are delicious, but you will believe otherwise. Also, tell your Ibu the first day that you hate papaya or else you'll eat it after dinner most days. You might even start to secretly like it.
Singing class will feel like public humiliation class the first day, but it will become one of the best parts of your week.
In an attempt to be frugal, you will buy a bus ticket to Bali during Idul Fitri, the busiest time for traveling of the year. You will also agree to be one of four girls sleeping in a hostel room meant for two. Now I have to endure a one million hour bus ride. Maybe just pay for a plane ticket instead, if you have a chance.
Indonesian people want to be your friend. Don't wait til the last week to let it happen.
You'll get over the jet lag, you'll be sad sometimes, school will be hard but worth it. You'll be really happy a lot of the time. You'll be able to speak Indonesian, I promise. I know you feel like a sickly alien, but you're not. You're just a college lady who got a cool scholarship and who really likes pandan cake.
Love and good luck,
Semangat,
Marisa
Semangat,
Marisa
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